Schoolchildren, especially those in high schools, can be very cruel to
some of their classmates. I don't just mean playground bullying. I
mean the awful, embarrassing and sometimes disparaging nicknames that
get conferred on those that just happen to be different, handicapped, or
simply unpopular. Some of these nicknames "get stuck"; the recipients
just gave up, accepted fate and adopted the nicknames as their very own,
displacing the auspicious real names their parents had carefully chosen
for them (names of Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist or Catholic saints, or
names which connote prosperity, glory, wisdom, etc., e.g., my Chinese
name says 'brilliant authority' in one rendering; OK, OK, you can stop
that snickering right now!)
Here are some memorable examples of nicknames from my high school,
and the cicumstances that gave rise to the nicknames. SHARE YOUR SCHOOL
NICKNAMES HISTORY WITH US!!
-
"FISH": WHY? Poor guy had a nervous twitch, opening his mouth every few
minutes like a fish breathing. WHEN? Just after a term break in 3rd
Form (year 9), when he had to stand in front of the class to recount
'What I did during the vacation', and he was tongue-tied. A cruel
classmate yelled from the back, "Just tell a FISHY story". It stuck.
AFTERMATH:
Fish is now a successful businessman in Malaysia. He still has this
twitch, much less often now, and everybody pretends not to notice.
-
"GUNSLINGER": WHY? This 6th Form (year 11) girl was a 'tomboy', and
walked around in a toughguy style, with arms swinging aggressively.
She brooked no nonsense. WHEN? One day, some 2nd Form kid noticed that
her walk resembled the sheriff's walk in the gunfight scene in 'High
Noon', and he arranged to walk toward her in one of the long hallways
in the school, imitating her walk. Nearing her, he yelled, "DRAW!!",
pretending to whip out his 6-shooters and firing at her. Cruel, raucous
laughter errupted from his friends.
AFTERMATH: Gunslinger is a happily ensconced
grandma now, after a successful business career. Still has this
walk.
-
"BUGS": WHY? I swear that I am not exaggerating when I say that this
guy who joined us in 3rd Form from a northern state looks like Bugs
Bunny when he smiles. It was noticed from Day One. It was completely
routine to be cruel to new boys and girls. WHEN: During his first
lunch break. Someone looked into Bug's lunch box and loudly asked, "Why
no carrots?" to everyone's laughter. Bugs became very popular when he
cheerfully adopted this nickname. AFTERMATH: Umpteen years later I was
visiting Melbourne and the old boys and girls from my high school had a
get-together which I attended. Bugs was then a senior engineer with
the Vic electric power company. While he was in the kitchen helping
prepare the salads, Bug's wife asked those who were in the lounge with her,
"Why do you all call my husband 'Bugs'?" Oh god, I had to rush out into
the garden to laugh, and WCL (one year my junior, but now a shrink)
had to do that too. WCL nealy killed me with laughter when he said,
"Now we know what they meant when they said that Love is Blind."
-
"F-squared": WHY? This guy had the most lecherous looking face in my
year. It was short for F***er Face, abbreviated as a code to fool the
girls into thinking it had to do with Math; you see, private jokes were
especially juicy when it was gender-exclusive. The gilrs had their own
private jokes to which we boys were not priviy. WHEN? Heaven only
knows, as it just seemed to emerge by consensus.
AFTERMATH: F**2 trained as an Elec Engineer
in London, worked as one, and is now retired. He looks quite dignified
now, but still has the hint of a lecherous grin.
-
"FANTASTICA": WHY? The most gorgeous girl one year junior to me; she
joined the school in Lower 6th Form and caused a stir on Day One. Boys
fell over one another to do things for her, but she politely declined
with a smile that "would melt the icebergs of Antarctica" as one of the
boy prefects told me. I checked her out, and as the precious line from
"Blazing Saddles" breathed by Madeline Kahn said, "It's twue, it's
twue!" WHEN? Within an hour of her arrival. AFTERMATH: Two of the
boys decided they would visit Fantastica at her home and try to curry
favor with her parents. On arrival (so went their account) F's father
appeared at the door. He was a stern-looking man, clearly a devout
Muslim with high expectations for his daughter's academic grades, and
he bellowed, "Oh, so you boys have nothing better to do than
to visit girls, eh? Don't you have any homework? What is the name of
your teacher? Who are your parents? What is your phone number? Etc,
etc." Needless to say, the boys hightailed it. As time progressed, the
ferocity of F's father got embellished. As of about 10 years ago, in
the re-telling he had by then
evolved into an Islamic Jihad Warrior, and the boys saw a pair of swords on
the wall behind that door. AFTER-AFTERMATH: F is reportedly a happy
grandmother, having retired from a professional career overseas.
-
"DELAYED": WHY? Poor fellow always laughed at the teacher's jokes
about 5 to 10 minutes after everyone else. WHEN? After one of the
boys smuggled in his uncle's book on sexual dysfunction which had a
description of an unfortunate ailment called 'premature ejaculation'. A
classroom wit (NOT ME!!) quickly noticed that this fellow suffered the
mental equivalent of the reverse ailment. It then got naturally
shortenned to just 'Delayed'. AFTERMATH: Delayed became a lawyer, and was
apparently a great courtroom success with his sardonic sense of humor.
He now laughs at jokes without the delay, and had accepted the nickname
as a great private joke among his close friends.
-
"ROCK-AND-ROLL": WHY? A brilliant table-tennis player, not because he
was at the top of the skill chart, but because he had the disconcerting
style of moving around the table like he was a local Elvis. The reason?
He used the western grip, and had no forehand! So he had to use the
backhand to return evey shot!! Just picture it. He so pissed off most
of his opponents that the consequent irritation would cause them to lose
to him. WHEN? After R&R beat some top players, and one of them was so
pissed off that he said, "Bugger, I can beat any real TT-player but I cannot
be expected to beat a bloody Rock-and-Roll idiot who pretends to play
TT!". AFTERMATH: R&R still has no forehand, and is a Prof of Physics
in the NTU. His PhD is from MIT.
-
"SAMPAN": WHY? A "sampan" is a small, almost kayak-like Malaysian
boat. Most of the students in my high school who took English
Literature as an 'O-level' subject had to read many classics, and one
was Marlowe's 'Dr Faustus'. In it is the
immortal
poem that paid homage to Helen of Troy, the most beautiful woman who
ever lived. The lines describing her began with "The face that launched
a thousand ships, And burnt the topless towers of Ilium". Well, if
maximal beauty = 1,000 ships, we figured the average girl in my school
is worth, say, about 5 or 6 ships, since our standards were very high!
The girls who were 'swots' (deeply interested in books) and wore
coke-bottle glasses rated one SAMPAN, or about 1 Micro-Helen.
-
"PIN-HEAD": WHY? He was a particularly pedantic School Captain. Not
really hated, but dismissed as an idiot. Unfortunately, he was very
tall and had a relatively small head. WHEN? One day he punished a
senior student in the Upper 6th (year 12) for the most insignificant
offence by getting him to write 1,000 "lines". This inventive student
then remarked to all and sundry that only a guy with the head of a pin
could be that unimaginative. It stuck. AFTERMATH: Pin-head went on to
read Science, then later worked for BHP. I do not know where he is now,
but I heard he mellowed long ago.
-
"AERODROME": WHY? Rather cruelly, this old name for airports was used
to describe a girl who matured physically later than her peers. It
referred to the nature of landing strips. WHEN? I forget. AFTERMATH:
She had the last laugh, as she blossomed into an attractive young woman
with many admirers. She read Arts, took a first, and married one of the
most eligible boys in the year after me. He read engineering and they
now live in Melbourne.
-
"BANDIT": WHY? He was supposed to look like a guy in a "Wanted"
poster. At that time Malaysia was in the throes of a Communist uprising
(partly caused by British betrayal of the anti-Japanese insurgents, and
partly by a miscalculation of the Maoists), and the British called the
guerrilas "bandits". WHEN? I suppose when the poster went up.
AFTERMATH: He became an engineer, and now lives in Sydney.