GNU Emacs Lisp Reference Manual
A dialog box is a variant of a pop-up menu. It looks a little different (if Emacs uses an X toolkit), it always appears in the center of a frame, and it has just one level and one pane. The main use of dialog boxes is for asking questions that the user can answer with ``yes'', ``no'', and a few other alternatives. The functions y-or-n-p and yes-or-no-p use dialog boxes instead of the keyboard, when called from commands invoked by mouse clicks.
(title (string . value)...)
which looks like the list that specifies a single pane for x-popup-menu.
The return value is value from the chosen alternative.
An element of the list may be just a string instead of a cons cell (string . value). That makes a box that cannot be selected.
If nil appears in the list, it separates the left-hand items from the right-hand items; items that precede the nil appear on the left, and items that follow the nil appear on the right. If you don't include a nil in the list, then approximately half the items appear on each side.
Dialog boxes always appear in the center of a frame; the argument position specifies which frame. The possible values are as in x-popup-menu, but the precise coordinates don't matter; only the frame matters.
If your Emacs executable does not use an X toolkit, then it cannot display a real dialog box; so instead it displays the same items in a pop-up menu in the center of the frame.